Wednesday 21 November 2007

What high profile divorces teach us about asset and wealth protection for men in divorce or separation.

The McCartney divorce has been attracting headlines recently, not only because of the vast sums of money speculated as being the settlement figure, but also because of the strange media antics of Lady McCartney herself. The McCartney divorce however is only the latest in a series of high profile divorces we have seen high before where men have built up a business, assets wealth and good-standing through hard work, only to lose a massive amount during separation or divorce to someone they once loved and trusted. Heather Mills has just made it into the record books because of the amount she appears to be about to scoop after only four years of marriage and because she has achieved so much as a 'one legged wonder'! Heck, a woman with two legs wouldn't have cost Paul twice as much, would she?



As a professional involved in asset protection and divorce strategies for men I have a very jaundiced view of her and women like her. I feel she is simply taking advantage of the pro-feminist injustice that currently "infects" the divorce courts both in Britain and America.


With a very few exceptions none of the women in these cases would have made a hill of beans unless they had managed to snare a very successful man. Their only claim to fame - or wealth - comes from screwing the poor slob one last time, through the courts!



The one lesson you learn by observing these cases is that the women take divorce planning and divorce strategies very seriously, the men usually don't. The men could do with a lot more asset protection planning, - my forte! Men think, " I'll get a good divorce lawyer and all will be OK." Bulls**t! A divorce lawyer is like a mortician; he just serves the corrupted flesh in as attractive a way as possible. Men need to actively protect their assets , not just trusting it will all work out. Divorce strategies and wealth protection do not just happen, they need to be planned!


If you think the courts or a good divorce lawyer will protect you, or if you think, your wife/girl is different and it won't happen to you, wake up and smell the roses!


I have a lot of sympathy for a man like Sir Paul; he didn't want to believe that things would deteriorate the way they did. Also, he probably didn't believe that he would be so badly stung after only four years of marriage. I don't know how many times he and she "did-it" over a four year period, but guess and then divide the number into the 50 million everyone seems to be talking about and - well, you get the idea ; a very expensive experience!



So what should a man in McCartney's shoes have done? The thing is, a man must act when things start to go badly wrong. If you wait and let the woman act first you will always be reacting to her legal pressure. If you act first you get ahead of the game. You need to be protecting your assets by pre divorce planning, just like the women plan their attack on your assets pre divorce, and believe me, they do!


So how does a man act first? Regrettably I can't give away my secrets here because my expertise is very particular and only my clients get to benefit from it, but there are a number of simple strategies for asset protection which men can put in place to control the knowledge their wife /partner gains about their affairs while they are still married.



In the field of asset and wealth protection knowledge is king. Deprive the woman of knowledge and she will always be chasing after you for the information; let her have the knowledge and you will always be racing to catch up with her as she seeks to benefit from her knowledge of your affairs! It is one of the best pieces of wealth protection advice anyone can be given.



Asset protection planning and wealth preservation and protection MUST start before the divorce starts if it is to be successful! Doing so will not initiate the divorce; asset protection planning will not prompt the end of the relationship; not at all. There are simple yet subtle steps you can take that she will never find out about, but which will keep your affairs private. It is a very effective divorce strategy for protecting assets.


So, why is privacy so important? I am "The International Privacy Strategist for Men" -No one else does what I do. Privacy is the foundation of asset protection. If you maintain privacy you can choose what information to reveal and what to withhold. If you do not maintain your privacy, you cannot make that choice because you cannot control the flow of information. Of course there is more to it than that but privacy is the start of all asset protection planning and divorce strategies.


I teach my clients four Maxims, - rules of behaviour reflecting truths. The first is; "Treat confidential matters confidentially." If you don't, then don't be surprised when your wife or partner uses the knowledge gained to her personal advantage. As for the other three, sorry but only my clients get to hear them!


As for Sir Paul, if he had been my client his asset protection planning and divorce strategy would have been put in place years ago and he isn't acting on my advice or my maxims or Heather McCartney wouldn't be talking about anywhere near 50 million!


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1 comment:

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